
2 MASSIVE Ways You May Be Leaving Money on the Table
“The biggest mistake you can make in life and business is to drop the ball and not follow up. Whether
“Holly I hate selling. I suck at the sales call. And I don’t know what to do about it.”
I’ve heard this countless times from prospects, clients, and friends.
How did we get here?
Since when is having a conversation about helping someone else such a dirty thing?
Way too many business owners and sales leaders find sales to be shameful and dirty…
How can we reframe the sales process to get to a better place around building our business revenue?
Regardless of whether you are a solopreneur doing your own sales or you have a massive sales team, here are some of the reframes that help you regain your revenue footing…
My clients tell me all the time how sales feels slimy. They feel dirty from the sales conversation. And yet, the reality is sales is all about service.
It’s about building a connection. It’s about listening to your prospect, asking questions, and remaining curious as you actively listen.
The more you can provide empathy and insight, the more you build trust.
The more clarity you provide a prospect, the better you position yourself as the expert.
Build a strong and authentic connection every time you connect with someone.
Ultimately we all want to be seen, understood and heard. For that to happen requires others to hold space and really tune in to what we have to say.
So how do you show up from a stance of service in the sales call?
Here are some ideas…
When you show up from a stance of service, you can’t go wrong. You will create a valuable new relationship regardless of whether or not they become a client.
They will appreciate your skills, insights, and likely refer to your business in the future.
Stop showing up to your sales calls focusing on money. Stop making it transactional.
Instead, focus on the relationship. Be sure to add value. Connect and listen deeply.
When you do this, sales won’t feel slimy. In fact, you’ll start to LOVE having these conversations.
The best sales leaders are the ones who are deeply curious. Curiosity allows you to ask insightful questions.
Being open and curious helps us to uncover what the real challenge our prospects are facing.
Sales is all about change. If you aren’t able to dig in and uncover what the real pain points are, you won’t make the sale.
Change is painful. Your potential customer needs to see how much pain their problem is causing for them to even consider that they need to do anything about it.
You also need a deep understanding of your prospects’ business.
How can you determine if you can help them if you don’t have a deep understanding? You can’t.
If you don’t understand their business, why would they consider working with you? They won’t.
Here are some questions to consider asking:
This is just a starting point. There are thousands of questions to consider…
This is why being curious is key.
Go into every call genuinely wanting to learn everything you can about your prospects’ business, values, vision, and company.
When I’m coaching clients on their sales process, I liken this to working with a doctor.
Doctor’s ask you all kinds of questions about your symptoms to try and get to a diagnosis. Business is the same way.
As sales experts, we must be excellent at getting to the root cause. And then show why it’s important to do something to solve this problem.
Do this and you will convert at a much higher percentage. And your prospects will walk away more clear on their problem. They will also know they need to change it or it will sink them.
There’s nothing worse than getting on a call with someone and they dive right into the sales pitch.
Instead, build rapport. Help your prospect gain clarity. Share valuable insights. Ask probing questions they’ve never considered.
When they lean in and say, “That’s a great question”, you know you’re on the right track.
Celebrate the wins they share. Show empathy when they share their struggles and pain points.
Offer insights related to their struggles that show what you’re an expert at.
Before you start your pitch, ask permission.
Ask them if they’d like to hear more about how you help businesses like them with that specific problem (i.e. the problem you’ve diagnosed they are struggling with).
When asking questions, don’t make this an interrogation.
Show empathy when that’s appropriate. Celebrate when they share some exciting results or a new initiative.
Asking for permission will save you time. People who aren’t a fit will say no. People who aren’t ready will be direct and share that openly.
When you dive right into it, it’s awkward. And it rarely works.
In the book, Gap Selling, the author talks about the importance of building the gap with your prospective client.
After all, without understanding how bad the pain is and how much better things can be, what’s the point in changing?
Sales is about change. As business leaders, it’s our responsibility to paint the picture for a better future.
Show your prospect what they are missing out on. Share a vision of a brighter future.
And the more specific you can be, the better.
Sales is also about emotion.
Meet your prospect where they are. Feel their pain.
Uncover their future dream state. Paint the emotional value of that future.
What does it feel like for your prospect to live in that future state?
It should feel exciting…delightful even.
The more you can get your prospect to visualize what that future state looks like, feels like, and sounds like, the more likely they are to work with you.
When they can taste the future you are helping them build, you know you’ve done your job.
Dig into the sensory experience with them.
You should be so hyper clear on this future state that you can walk them through the experience, side by side.
I get it. This is really hard to do alone.
This is why I work with a coach. And this is why my clients hire me as a consultant.
When I work with companies and nonprofits as a consultant, I bring an objective, external voice to help you:
If you’re ready to…
Let’s chat: https://changemakerimpactco.as.me/?appointmentType=40888294

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